What a rough couple of months we have had here....so many losses.....I am beginning to feel that I am under a cloud of death, as awful as that may sound. From my own experience, in one weekend we said goodbye to my best friend's mother, the next night said goodbye to a young mother of one of Mark's former students, and in the midst of all of this heard about a tragic car accident.
I pray for these families. Losing a child........no words. I can't even begin to imagine. It saddens me that the young, innocent members of our community are having to learn to cope with the deaths of one or more of their peers. This is something none of us will ever forget. I just keep picturing Josh and Tyler with their shoulder pads on...they were so little..so cute. Always smiling, well behaved little guys. They have touched so many lives in their short years with us. I pray for their sister, the sole survivor of this tragic accident. No words. (shaking my head......) I'm saddened by what she must be dealing with.....what her parents and loved ones are dealing with.
I think this is a strong message for us all.....live each day as if it was your last. Love with all that you have. And parents.......enjoy your kids while they are kids. Put down the Ipad, Iphone, Mac, whatever do-dad you have. Enjoy that stuff when the kids are at school, or asleep for the night. Spend time with them now, you may not have them tomorrow. You always hear people saying that "kids these days, it wasn't like this when I was growing up." If you want kids to be respectful, happy kids.....play with them. Talk to them. They learn from you. If you are a negative, crabby, woe is me person, then that's what your going to reproduce. Maybe someday that kid will realize they don't want to be like that anymore, but why not fix it before it's too late?
It. Starts. At. Home. Get it?
And I'm not saying that was the case that with these little boys. My Jack played football with them. Damon, Melonye, Grandpa Joe......other family members and friends......they were always there. Loving those boys, cheering them on.
~it's our wonderful life~
Thursday, January 12, 2012
Friday, December 30, 2011
sOuLmAtE
Isn't it amazing how you can meet that one person who changes your life? That would be my Mark. We met by chance....our paths crossed at the right time and our universes came together. He is my soulmate...the love of my life. I can remember hearing about him from Luke's special Ed teachers at HCA. they knew Luke would be going to CFJ and they felt he would be a good fit for Luke. I met Mark the first time at Luke's CSE meeting. We started dating 2 yrs later. Our first 'date' was at Bailey's bar in Binghamton after a parent committee meeting for Headstart, which we were both representatives. Sparks flew that night....the rest, as they say is history. He has taught me to believe in myself, to not give up. Because of him I strive to be a better person, a better wife, mother. Sometimes I wish I had met him when I was younger, but God had a plan....and neither one of us was ready then. We are ready now and that's why it works. It happened when I wasn't looking, I was focusing on bettering my kids and myself when we started to date. He continuously believes in me- because of him I haven't had a drink in 40 months- and I'm a better person because of it.
Wednesday, December 28, 2011
My three loves
I have three children....Halie- age 12, Luke- age 9, Jack- age 8. Halie is a dancer and a cheerleader. She is an amazing, beautiful, smart, thoughtful, young girl. She is on the honor roll at school, as well as a member of the school newspaper and the yearbook. Luke was diagnosed with Autism when he was 3 years old. I will tell you more about him in due time......he is a thoughtful, caring, handsome young man. He has his own unique personality and enjoys art, basketball, baseball and football. Jack is my "Amelia Bedilia". He drives me absolutely crazy, but I don't know what I would do without him! He was a wonderful baby, as we called him 'laid-back Jack'. I'm not sure what has happened to him......he is full of energy, and LOVES sports.
Well, here it goes.....
Ok, Mark told me quite some time ago, that rather than facebook I should blog about our crazy lives. You see, you take a bachelor, a single mom, 3 crazy kids and a dog......life is bound to be interesting. You have no idea.....so welcome to our blog.
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